A Message from Your BCC Team: Today’s blog was first posted at Brad Hambrick’s ministry site. You can also read the post there at How Healthy and Satisfying Is Your Sex Life?
Being Excellent Lovers
The link below provides a 50-question, self-scoring evaluation that helps you and your spouse evaluate:
- The shared beliefs and values necessary for a healthy sex life
- The comfort with your bodies and vocabulary necessary for a healthy sex life
- Factors related to the frequency and quality of a healthy sex life
- Red flags that would derail a healthy sex life
Here’s the link to the Being Excellent Lovers Evaluation.
We addressed the subject of sexuality at the Sam James Institute Forum: Living in 50 Shades of Grey: A Cultural Assessment and Christian Education in Sexuality. In the second half of this presentation, I presented on “Learning to Skillfully and Unashamedly Enjoy God’s Gift of Sex.”
While the primary audience of this material was married or engaged couples, we believe that—in a culture that is already sex-saturated—having a wholesome view of what God intends sex to be in marriage can be an important asset in strengthening single’s resolve not to settle for something less outside the context of marriage.
A version of this presentation is available in videos 4 and 5 of the Creating Gospel-Centered Marriage: Intimacy seminar.