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Periodically on weekends, we want to alert you to a resource hosted at the BCC’s Resource Page that we believe you will find helpful in your life and ministry.
Confronting An Abuser
This weekend’s resource is from the husband and wife team: Justin and Lindsey Holcomb. Here’s how Justin introduces this vital new resource on Confronting An Abuser.
Since writing Rid of My Disgrace: Hope and Healing for Victims of Sexual Assault, we have had the privilege of answering lots of questions from victims, those who support them, and even some perpetrators.
A frequent topic that has come up is confronting one’s abuser and those complicit in covering it up. While confrontation with an abuser may seem like the right thing to do, it is different for each person. For some it might be a great thing to do. They may confront their abuser, receive an apology, and feel a sense of freedom or closure. However, for others, confrontation may only worsen the effects of the assault.
There are five common questions regarding confronting a perpetrator. Before we answer those specific questions, we will summarize a few facts about sexual assault.