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An End-of-First-Year Marriage Check-Up

October 13, 2011

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An End-of-First Year Marriage Check-Up

(i.e., a really quick survey of your marriage!)

Instructions:  Fill this out separately and then talk about it with your spouse before you come in.  Send it to your pastor a day or two before you meet with him.

SAMPLE QUESTIONS:

  1. What are some of the challenging things you’ve faced so far in marriage?
  2. What have been the best things about marriage so far?
  3. What has surprised you?
  4. For the husband:  How would you evaluate your leadership in marriage?   Where has leadership been hard?  Where has it been easy?  What do you need to change about your leadership?
  5. For the wife:  How would you evaluate your husband’s leadership in marriage?