An End-of-First Year Marriage Check-Up
(i.e., a really quick survey of your marriage!)
Instructions: Fill this out separately and then talk about it with your spouse before you come in. Send it to your pastor a day or two before you meet with him.
- What are some of the challenging things you’ve faced so far in marriage?
- What have been the best things about marriage so far?
- What has surprised you?
- For the husband: How would you evaluate your leadership in marriage? Where has leadership been hard? Where has it been easy? What do you need to change about your leadership?
- For the wife: How would you evaluate your husband’s leadership in marriage?