Discussion for the couple:
1. Compare your two lists. Note similarities and differences in what you marked. Explain why you marked what you did.
2. Pick out the sin (or sins) that have been most destructive for your relationship. Describe the dynamic behind that sin. Then think with your spouse/fiancée about how you can put the sin to death and how your spouse/fiancée can help you fight it.
Take some time to pray together and ask God for his help